It’s a CHOICE!

No , I won’t say all men are dogs , not all are perverts . Not everyone a womaiser . No I won’t say it’s a great write up . 

But hey I tried , so you try tooo . 🌚

Hey you , listen up ! I have something for you..... Thank you for disturbing me late at nights , you are the reason I can’t sleep untroubled. 

I’m in a constant fear when you might just wanna grab me and use me for your wants . 

I’m again terrified, sitting in the corner  of my bed writing what I have kept inside for long . 

Love is beautiful they say , love is precious . 

But I’m scared of love  for all I have witnessed it is in your bed , the dark shady nights we spent . 

Daylight was never the perfect one for you to manifest love , and not for me too . For nights covered the horrendous face you made when you fucked me  harder. 

I realise how the entire world compliments my hair , it’s the most beautiful possession for a woman . But hey these long luscious hair were never taken care of. They have been pulled tight , clasped so hard that the scalp screams for aid now just like my internals do , shhh I hush them all . 

I know I have to speak up . I know I need to take a stand . I tried , I tried telling them that I don’t love  him . They silenced me they say “ what’s wrong ? It’s all fine “ 

What’s wrong is that I feel used ! 

What’s wrong is  that my checks have never been  kissed out of love ! 

What’s wrong is that my lips  have  been stained and  smudged not of the red lipstick i wore last night , but the blood and abject pain . 

Million hashtags going around the social media , I don’t need those fake validations because hey I need to deal with it at the end of the day . It’s just me and him . He is the monster and I’m his prey .

To all the ones who said what’s wrong , wrong is that it’s all lust , love does not exist . 

No I’m  not a bitch you wake up and fuck with ! But you are a bastard for you be so ruthless with ! 

No not your sex worker darling , 

I’m your Girlfriend .

I’m your wife . 

I’m your fiancé . 

Sex is not a duty , darling . Sex is a CHOICE . 

-Arya Gawade ( 15/11) 03:26 a.m.

SMILE

Aloha people ! for all the ones who were waiting for it , I am really sorry for posting this one so late.

What is a smile?
A smile is a way of showing your happiness, love, friendliness, appreciation and kindness. There are some people who are always smiling, which shows that they are always happy or I should say  at least pretending  to be happy. “Smiles”, they are like the most beautiful and alluring part every individual possesses. They are so powerful that they could either make someone’s day or ruin it. Now, arriving at the amount of deceptivity they hold  . One can’t really make out if it’s a truly genuine smile or a sinister smile . How many times in a day do we give people empty smiles, just to avoid getting into an argument ? A smile just stuck on the bottom half of your face , to hide the pain you are feeling on the internal side . how often do you give a smile to potray yourself strong ? Or just to stay away from people in today’s world who are prepared to judge you and insinuate about you . Smiles surely help you avoid such situations , but the cain raises when such deceptive smiles make it difficult for us to understand  if an individual genuinely  likes us , if they like our company or is it just a bogus smile .

Think of the times you went past your  colleagues  at your work place or your acquaintances and friends at schools , now think of the smile they gave you. Were they truly happy to see you ? baffled right .

There are instances when you would be too busy even to smile at the other  person who passed by you  . Smiling is contagious. Once you smile at a person, it results in the other person smiling back at you. So the next time spend  a few seconds of your fast paced life and smile back at your so called friends. At least at that instance, there are no moments of hatred, and momentarily, you don’t have negative feelings towards the other person. Smiling is a simple act that means so much to the person given and much more to the person who needed it  but so little to the person giving it out. What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity.

Many find it difficult to smile . it can be the loneliness , the anxiety or fear that could drain you out of a smile. So, you can never find a perfect environment to smile because the stumbling blocks of life are going to haunt you forever . If you still wait for the moment to arrive it won’t  be surprising that how you may end up not wearing  a smile throughout your lifetime .

 

So, be willful and intentional at smiling . Lighten up, just enjoy life, smile more, laugh more, and don't get so worked up about things.

I hope you guys like it , please let me know in the comment section . Thank you and keep smiling.

 

Crave till you depart.

Crave till you depart.

It takes time to be earned ,

however a moment of bad judgement is enough to lose it all.

Everyone in the world craves for it,

some put up with hard work and some stop retaliating for the presence of it,

wishing and hoping if not found in one's own eyes at least to be found in the society's eyes.

Besides the thing we have heard and seen we keep quiet due to the fear of scrutiny.

 Many bend upon the knees to prevail it and some eat their pride to prolong it.

We stand back ,think twice and be nice for the reason it can't be bought.

So what is 'it' ? A peril you have to be cautious of , some riches you need to save or just reputation which everyone craves for.

                         - ARYA GAWADE 

NO END ......

NO END .....

Ups and downs , highs and lows ,

path where life makes us bow .

Twirled and twisted path it chooses 

and alleys where you may get bruises.

One who steps back is a coward milksop,

the other who continues is an undaunted macho .

You need to find the way out ,

all you are left with two choices .

You can either let life weigh you down ,

or can fly above the highest cloud.

Has it been the sky that limits you ,

plunge off the cloud that interdicts you  .

                                                                             - Arya Gawade 

Love Story

Love Story

 This is the very first time I have made an attempt to write a Poem . Hope you like it.

She was the understated , introverted shy smiling girl ,

The one who wouldn't even sing her acclaims ,

but her eyes screamed out love ,and my heart knows every word...

One day she ran into a lad , his watery hazel eyes and

his cute little smile,made her irresistible.

The strangers soon turned out to be best friends,

their time flew away blathering to each other ,

from dusk to dawn to another.

 Little did he knew he had fallen for her,but my heart knows every word...

He said"moon hangs low tonight and so do you dear,

be a little agile aren't you too fragile"

She said "take me for who I am or leave me for what I am not"

He said " well then I want a spry,

 you better get another shoulder to cry"

Was she left broken?

Did she move on?

Well my heart knows every word.....

                                                        - Arya Gawade

Shake it off

SHAKE IT OFF !!!

So guys up with something more exciting today !Today i am not going to tell you how to change according to the circumstances or handle the consequences of life ,but what to surmise over and whom to take in consideration.

Well the people in this world are so full of insinuations and suggestions that we are baffled with whom to lend our ears and whom to avoid taking in consideration .Leaving us with a question , if anyone in this venturing world is supposed to be trusted ?

Well yes , the thing which you could take in consideration always is what your heart rebukes. As rightly added in literature believe only 1/4 of what you hear,1/2 of what you see and owe your trust completely to what you feel from the core of your heart. Just a thing to remember if you have a strong feeling that the individual is correct and not as per what the world says,shit out all what they say , let it go all in vain and add the person to the list of the people whom you owe your trust .

So shake off the memories or sayings they ever posted on your timeline because you may leave the person now but later you only have loads of regret left . 

Because it really hurts when time passes and you realize that you've let the wrong person go.So let the whole world say that the person is not the one to be trusted over if you know that the one is right just don't give the world a damn and act as if you are oblivion. 
 
So guys let me be a little bollywood style " Apni dil ki suno and live your dream ,have a faith on yourself  , it will all be worth it in the end "

Women security

Women security at stake in India 

Well today i am going to express my views on the security of women in our country. Its been our sixty nine years of independence and heading with one of the finest constitutions of the world.But  majority of the women are still under some fear which isn't letting  them surge out of the eke and the miserable life they posses.Men and women are like the two wheels of the chariot .The life of the one without the other is incomplete,but men are the reason in fact their brutal killing for not satisfying the dowry demands has kept them venturing in the progressing world , they are still facing the trauma ,they faced in the past .Let it be fear of molestation , female infanticide which has captured their mindsets and got them in the junction of fear and eve. 

I feel its completely futile to talk about women empowerment if we have made up our minds to live in this peril .As rightly said hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. I salute the women who have urged out of the life and its the responsibility of the citizens to take care of their security so that they could make much headway . 

So lets take a pledge not just make them exist as goddess in the quotes but to make them feel that secure and not to be irreverent to these struggling lives.